WARNING: WALL OF TEXT WITH NO TL;DR
So I just posted a wall of text including my entire WoW story that when I clicked Submit I was asked to re-log and it all got deleted. So i'll try to sum it up.
I also apologise for spelling mistakes, it's 3am and i'm having trouble keeping my eyes open yet having trouble sleeping.
I started WoW mid-2010 after a friend* (at the time anyway) suggested it to me. I haven't played many games in my life so it was a whole new experience to me that I absolutely loved.
I levelled slowly, and my friend* offered me all the help in the world. Be it gold, dungeon runs, quest help, etc.
I joined a social guild at around level 40 and met some alright people and had fun levelling to 80 with them. My friend* then pressured me into joining this casual-raiding guild with guild that, because he helped me so much; I would be doing the wrong thing to not join his guild.
This was when I discovered the real him. To the guild, he was an extremely nice person. But outside, oh, I knew the real him; and saw it. He was a horrible person. I don't usually call someone out for anything but he is a terrible excuse for a human. He even gave me a list of people that I wasn't allowed to befriend within the guild as they were for him only.
A few weeks of taking his abuse I decided enough was enough; I was just going to leave the game and pretend I had never started. Call it fate, but the day I decided this his computer broke. And it made me so happy. He was without a job so no new computer in sight!
I was filled with joy that I decided to talk to some of the other guildies and get to know them. I'm not ashamed to say, the best people I have ever met in my life were in this guild.
Amazing beyond belief.
I formed great friendships, and was honestly having the time of my life. I was put on the raid team as a trial and in 3 weeks we went from 5/12 to killing the Lich King (Not saying it was because of me lol >-< ).
So cata rolled around and I was enjoying levelling with these friends on my first 85 when a friend of his (also in the guild) who was inactive for months came online suddenly and said he would be back within the week as he was getting a new computer. I was almost in tears.
I told the guild and my friends that the moment he came back; I was gone. I couldn't bare to be in the same guild with him but I couldn't bear to be apart from the friends I made. Promptly, I had backing from the majority of the guild and the guild leader who went ahead and kicked all of his toons from the guild. He didn't end up coming back anyway, so I continued playing and having a great time.
The guild late January split up, and the majority of the guild formed their own. A few of us wanted to go our own way and try something new. These were my friends, we did join seperate guilds, some even raiding! We never thought we would be raiding so much and doing good. But to this day we do spend most of our time together except for raids. And we enjoy it.
So, around 3 hours ago now; he came back. I was casually collecting eggs and recieved an abusive whisper from an unknown name. I thought I must of stolen someones eggs, but wasn't sure so I asked them who they were. When I got the reply... my heart sank. I literally felt sick. I ignored him straight away and was starting to panic. "he's going to ruin everything, I know it" I kept telling myself, and still am. He proceeded to toon hop up to 6 times abusing me on each. I promtply ignored every single one when my friends started whispering me saying he was contacting them and doing the exact same thing.
And this is where i'm at now. He knows all my contact information, including my real I.D (which I have him long deleted on) but what i'm scared of is him sharing this information around. I KNOW he's going to continue the harrasment any way he can, to me, and my friends. I love this game, and I have a good time playing it. I don't want this to ruin it for me.
Am I over reacting?
Am I pathetic for even posting about this?
What do I do :3
/sorry for putting my problems out there. im usually the one that tries to help but my head is so unclear right now :c
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If you do change your Battle.net information, Elenin, I might also recommend disabling and then re-enabling Real ID on your account. Keep a list of the people you'll want to reinvite, because this will wipe your friend's list for Real ID - however, it will also REMOVE you from anyone else's Real ID list, and might help a bit with his "tracking" of you.
As the others have already said, continue to report each and every instance of harassment you receive. Doing what you are doing, by not responding and letting us know about the situation, is the best possible course of action. We're happy to help in such situations, and while we cannot inform you of the actions we take from these investigations, please trust we will always take appropriate action for the situation. Best wishes to you. |
